Dating

Went to SMCGC this morning..and the sermon is about 'dating' between couple. A normal boy and a normal girl. First of all, what does dating means? hmm..going out with an opposite sex for a dinner..for a movie..that's it? that's all? Based on what pastor Connie says..you date a person because you want to understand a person better..agree with it? I totally agree with that. Before you promise for a date..ask yourself what is the purpose of you going for the date? Just to waste your time? Just to walk around? Once you know the purpose of a date, you will definetly know what you should and should not do. Haha :D

Love a person is to combine the soul into one but not combining the body.. Do you understand that? Keep your clean and pure body for the one that you really love. That's the promise for your husband in the future (girls). The main purpose of dating is to give you an opportunity to understand a person better and to prepare a better future for the couple. Dating is not to waste time :D When two soul are combining together..they actually learn from each other =) What have you learn from your partner? Can you recall anything. Think of it ba =) They are not changing their personality but to learn new things. As simple as that.

Love a person is not to change a person but to accept the person. Accept all his/her negative things and habits. I am accepting all the things..but maybe in a wrong way that will caused misunderstanding. *Sometimes, I can feel it tho.* How many of you can actually do that? Many couple tend to wish that their bf/gf can change themselves to suit the partner.Why? Ask yourself la..But seriously, I don't like that..=) believe or not..it's up to you..*at least i am clear on what am I doing right now and I am mature to think(last time I might be too childish tho)* *winks!*

During dating, the most important thing is "communication". If you don't communicate, you never know what and how is he/her thinking of a thing. That's why never scared to say opinions and ideas. Everyone is not perfect. So, what are you shying at? Scared of being rejected or laugh? Hehe..If your partner really loves you, whatever mistakes that you did, he/she will bot laugh at you but will tell you and teach you. That's it. =)

Seriously, I have done a lot of things that makes me regret. I understand that there is no second chance in life :)Therefore people, an advice, please cherish the moment of being together..cherish the person that you really care and love.. love him/her with your whole heart =)

Blessed everyone. <3>